I have not had one of those in a while..... A good fight**.... The kind that builds intimacy...
The kind of fight where you go to the very edge but then rush towards each other again as if it was end of the world....the kind of fight where you expose the most vulnerable raw part of you but you are not afraid to.....because there is an all-accepting embrace at the end of it.....The fight which breaks all the expectations and then builds new ones.....The dialogue that you have with yourself and you know will lead to trouble when you say it loud and still it comes spilling out of you....and when it does you realize half of those things that you planned to say never came out......because they were not needed.....there is an intense gaze that says "It's OK.. I love you...I may not always say so but I do....Not despite of your faults but sometimes because of them....I love you because you are you....."
The kind of fight that muddles with your brains and shakes the very core of you...where at the end you are left both utterly exhausted and exhilarated.... The kind of fight that leaves you flushed, blushed and very chuffed.... The one which makes you want to announce to the world how great your fight was but also the kind which makes you want to shut up and keep it private just for your own self....and smile your mysterious smile and feel very smug about yourself....
you know what I am talking about? Wait.....do you? I walk to the other room where he is working on his laptop and I ask him "What according to you is a good fight?"
A good fight is the one that leads to make-up sex.....Great make-up sex
Hmm thats one way of putting it.....
I definitely want me one of those
** Again inspired by the amazing Natasha Badhwar http://www.livemint.com/articles/2012/07/27202529/The-perfect-anniversary-gift.html
The kind of fight where you go to the very edge but then rush towards each other again as if it was end of the world....the kind of fight where you expose the most vulnerable raw part of you but you are not afraid to.....because there is an all-accepting embrace at the end of it.....The fight which breaks all the expectations and then builds new ones.....The dialogue that you have with yourself and you know will lead to trouble when you say it loud and still it comes spilling out of you....and when it does you realize half of those things that you planned to say never came out......because they were not needed.....there is an intense gaze that says "It's OK.. I love you...I may not always say so but I do....Not despite of your faults but sometimes because of them....I love you because you are you....."
The kind of fight that muddles with your brains and shakes the very core of you...where at the end you are left both utterly exhausted and exhilarated.... The kind of fight that leaves you flushed, blushed and very chuffed.... The one which makes you want to announce to the world how great your fight was but also the kind which makes you want to shut up and keep it private just for your own self....and smile your mysterious smile and feel very smug about yourself....
you know what I am talking about? Wait.....do you? I walk to the other room where he is working on his laptop and I ask him "What according to you is a good fight?"
A good fight is the one that leads to make-up sex.....Great make-up sex
Hmm thats one way of putting it.....
I definitely want me one of those
** Again inspired by the amazing Natasha Badhwar http://www.livemint.com/articles/2012/07/27202529/The-perfect-anniversary-gift.html
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